For most men, picking up a girl is not an easy task. The tricky part comes in when the guys have no confidence in themselves. Women like men who can stand up courageously and confidently. A man who knows how to take responsibilities and make a lady happy. When a man cannot pick up on a chick, they tend to think that they are less attractive. Well, it is wrong to keep the perception of how you look physically in front of other factors when approaching a woman. You can speak to a lady at any place either club, bar, on your way to work or anywhere else; who knows how it would turn up to be.
The place you approach a lady would not matter, but the way you step in with your conversation can tell a lot about the man you are. You should not think that having money and showing off the properties you own like expensive cars and houses will make a real woman want to have a relationship with you. If you want a well-behaved woman who is not after your money to stick with you for the rest of her life, let her come to learn about what you own much later when you are sure that she wants to be with you. You should be yourself, and let the woman decide whether she want to be with a man of your type.
A woman would want to be in a relationship for various reasons. If a woman feels inferior, she believes that she does not deserve anything good. So, she will tend to accept you if she thinks that you are a loser like herself and that you two can be birds of the same feathers. Therefore, a man should show confidence in himself so that the lady believes he is not desperate with getting into a relationship. Also, a lady can get in a relationship with a man if she knows that she will get into control of the friendship. The woman knows that the man cannot leave her for someone else. Therefore, she will be giving threats of going whenever something does not happen as she wants. Thus, some women stay in a relationship with lesser men to get a companion while they build up their reputation. Afterward, they leave the guy stranded and look for the man they think is of their match.
Some other women do not know how to build up a relationship. Thus, they want to date lesser men but not because they are in love. At first the woman can think that they feel love for the man out of affections that come with sex and lust. But since the woman does not have a talent in building on respect and attraction in their relationship, the love she thought she felt for the man will die away.
• Fake some confidence – if you believe you do not have enough courage to face a lady of your dream, then, fake some stands that can help make her think that you are up to her league. Enhance your self-esteem by flirting with some chicks at your neighborhood or some of your friends. Though, make sure you do not go breaking up much hearts. What I mean is that practice will build some confidence within you.
• Dress decently – of course you should not go jumping on some new chicks on the road-side looking like a thug. Women will scream you away, and they can make you bitten up. Wear smart; looking like a gentleman so every woman would want to associate with you. Smell sweet and walk with confidence.
• Smile – when approaching a woman, do not go to her like you want to give her a slap on her face. Show some white teeth. I mean, smile toward her such that it seems like you know her from somewhere.
• Make her laugh – if you see her smile back at you, or she cracks a laughter for a joke you give, then, you are almost there. Everybody wants someone with a sense of humor. However, do not go showing your comic acts along the way. You should not do something that can make you seem stupid. Just some jokes and teasing like a gentleman with some limits.
• Keep your distance – you should not go too close to touching a woman on the first date. Show seriousness but do not go too close to her. Showing respect is critical in getting the woman’s attention.
Feel free to ask general questions. However, do not talk about personal matters in the first meeting. Be truthful about yourself since the lady would come to know about you accurately if everything goes well. Finally, take her contact so you can invite her on a date or a movie before someone else does.